CLOCKER SNYC

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and I love her with all of my heart. She's a hardcore stud,naturally and doesn't even try to be, and I am a femme. I love her the way she is don't get me wrong but I was wondering if there was any possible way I could bring out sum of the feminine in her w/o making her feel uncomfortable. I've been doing it gradually and its paid off a little, but shes still one of those people who loves to pleasure me and thats where she gets her pleasure from, knowing that her woman is pleased whereas part of my pleasure is pleasuring her but when I offer she always tells me that "thats her job" or either it makes her feel uncomfortable. And I'm not speaking of just sex wise, I mean when it comes to alot of things,sometimes I just want to treat her like the beautiful women she is but she feels uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice? I'm not trying to change her I just want her to know that she is also a woman. Thanks!